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Before and After: Deb Tambor was raised as a member of the Skver Hasidim in upstate New York. She is pictured as she appeared before (left) and after leaving the group.
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A New Square divorcée 33 year-old mother of 3 has committed suicide over on Yom Tov.
Her Name is Deborah Tambor, she was allegedly molested as a child by her uncle and when she told her Rabbi about the sexual abuse he accused her of lying and was exceedingly mean, her parents did not know of the molesting until after she broke down years later when she had already several kids and the marital problems started, then she left the New Square Community.
Here was a woman who lost her children with the help of a judicial system so corrupted by the bloc votes.
Square leadership treated her horribly, allegedly heaping money and support on her ex-husband and demonizing Deb, all in order to make sure she did not get custody of or normal visitation with her children.
Square won that fight, but the demonizing of Deb did not stop. Instead, Square Rabbis and teachers worked to alienate her children from their mother. Square and her ex-husband knew about the sexual abuse and about Deb's depression and previous suicide attempt. What Square and Deb's ex-husband did to her was very likely to make her depression worse.
Eventually the pain of all of this became too great and Deb committed suicide. Many of her friends went to Rockland County for the funeral, which was delayed over and over and over again by Square – delayed until the those ex-haredi friends finally left in the very early hours of this morning, many hours after they arrived to mourn her.
She allegedly tried to kill herself once before, while she was still married and in New Square, the Rabbis and Deb's ex-husband bear significant responsibility for what happened.
Depressive illness is one of the common problems that come from sexual abuse.
Just recently, Yoeli Spielman, a young man who was shunned by his community, also reportedly committed suicide right after Yom Kippur.
A woman who leaves the path of Torah and mitzvos is by definition not a fit mother for Yiddishe neshomos. Anything the local Rabbonim did to prevent those neshomos being ensnared by the soton is only deserving of our praise.
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Children need their mother. This woman was ridiculed and taken to the brink by the Rabbanim / community from whom she needed love and guidance, but got the opposite. There is a war going on between good and evil, and you BDE are on the wrong side. There is a reason why the Gemara foretells prevalence of a lack of respect for Rabbanim in the End of Days!
Deletemaybe if those local Rabbonim, her family and others, would have loved her, listened to her, tried to help her and shown her the beauty of TRUE Torah and mitzvos that she could believe in, she would not have left the path - or this world....
ReplyDeleteyou are a typical frum idiot, the rabonim that you call rabonim are abusers.
ReplyDeletei went into Mr Dovid Dunner from pardes house, and told him that i have been sexualy abused by a boy in my class, and this is what the frum wank told me, it cant be true and did NOTHING about it. Dovid, all u are is a show, in school you were a bully, you have a lot to answer for.
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